- Building a Snowman
While when I was a child, I loved building a snowman (thanks Frozen), I now cannot stand the cold and would rather do anything but this. No matter how cute the snowman may turn out, with a top hat and button nose (and two eyes made out of coal?), I just cannot bear to ever have to bundle up like a puffy marshmallow, as I did when I was a toddler, and frolic in the snow.
- Fireplace and Hot Chocolate
I cannot lie, I love a sweet treat after a long day, so sitting by my fireplace in the living room with a mug of steaming hot chocolate is the best thing during a cold and snowy evening. Loading the fancy Williams Sonoma hot chocolate (in the flavor of your choice) up with whipped cream—specifically homemade—and marshmallows, and having some Peppermint Bark on the side is truly the dream. The first thing I will do to kick off the winter break this year is settle in for my family’s nightly viewing of Jeopardy with the fireplace blazing, and a steaming mug of hot chocolate in my hand.
- Going to a Christmas Tree Farm
Now, while my family doesn’t go and cut down a Christmas tree anymore, as my dog is insane and will eat the pine needles when they fall off, going to a Christmas tree farm and smelling the amazing scent of pine and having the crisp air hitting me in the face was so magical as a child. I have so many memories of going and driving out thirty minutes to a farm, helping my dad use the saw to cut the perfect tree down, and then going and buying overpriced hot cocoa from the stalls set up around the farm. My favorite bit was seeing the tree go through that machine that ties it all together; it always looked so cool to me as a kid. Then after the tree was all set up in our house, we’d put some Christmas music on and decorate the tree with many lights and sparkling ornaments. It was so fun!
- Movies
One of my favorite parts of the Christmas season is the holiday and wintry movies/TV shows. It was always so fun going to my aunt’s apartment and putting on Frosty the Snowman and Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer while playing games like UNO and Snakes and Ladders. On Christmas Eve, my family has the tradition of watching Prep and Landing, and I just simply cannot remember a time when that short movie wasn’t a part of my Christmastime. That was my favorite way to ring in Christmas day, and even though my brother and I are older now, we still watch it every year, without fail.
- Sledding/Tobogganing
While earlier I did mention how playing in the snow is not fun for me anymore, I do love to sled and toboggan. I remember the many times I was taken out to the hillside around the Thornton Park ice rink and had my little green plastic sled, feeling like I just absolutely flew down the hill. Tobogganing is so fun to do, and while I may have not gone in a couple of years, it’s still one of the most fun things to look forward to during the winter season, driving out far just to hit the snowy hills in a super fast ‘sleigh,’ if you will. While many ‘winter’ activities could be done outside of winter (if you’re sane you wouldn’t but still, some people weirdly do), this activity is the most wintry activity one can really achieve. You get the whole vibe of winter and Christmas while out on the snowy hills, seeing the cabins around with smoke floating out of the chimneys, the gutters and doors all decorated with lights, and the smell of firewood and hot cocoa once you go inside for a quick break.


And now, here I am, sixteen going on seventeen, but not in some magical, cinematic performance choreographed and sung in a gazebo. I remember recreating this scene with my friend, twirling each other around and singing in unison. The reality felt lifetimes away. But growing up doesn’t display itself in a big musical number; there’s no warning, one day it just happens.


I truly love spending Christmas with my family, but as the holiday approaches, more and more nervous sweat is starting to coat my palms. As I’ve gotten older, it’s become increasingly difficult to slip into the background of my very large family gatherings. Unfortunately, I’ve surpassed the age where it is socially acceptable to disappear to play Minecraft, or escape to go choreograph a dance to Justin Bieber’s “That Should Be Me”