As my senior year comes to a close, I (ironically) seem to be stressing more than ever. Now, it’s not that anything is particularly stressful. But when you combine everything with senioritis and an ever-decreasing will to do anything, even the smallest things become stressful.
However, I recently watched an interesting TedTalk in my AP Psychology class that changed my view on stress. I’ve always that stress is bad for your health, and, like many others, I’ve fallen victim to the “stress less and you’ll live longer” campaign. But the woman giving this TedTalk, Kelly McGonigal, reveals that it’s not the stress itself that is bad for you.
To keep it brief, she discusses a study that followed 30,000 Americans over eight years, asking them how much stress they experienced and whether or not they believed stress was harmful to their health, before keeping track of if/when they died. As one would expect, those who experienced lots of stress were more likely to die– but only those who believed that stress was harming them.
Here’s the kicker: those who experienced lots of stress AND did not view stress as harmful were the least likely to die, even compared to those who reported low levels of stress. The best way to stress less is really to stop stressing about stress.
Encountering stress as you go throughout life is unavoidable. Yet, as cliche as it sounds, it’s truly what you do with that stress that determines the outcome. So, next time you feel yourself to be overwhelmed, remember that stress is not the enemy. It is simply your body having your back and preparing for the battle ahead, even if it is just an endless stack of homework.
Here is a link to the TedTalk. I would highly recommend watching it! There is some great detail on how the study as well as other resulting studies. https://www.ted.com/talks/kelly_mcgonigal_how_to_make_stress_your_friend?language=en